Finding a sexual partner used to be a labour-intensive process, but now you can find someone to hook up with, date, or even marry with a few swipes on a dating app, she says.
He tells Hannah that he was under the impression that she wasn't looking for something serious.
At first, Hannah is mad, but then she decides to try and enjoy the rest of the weekend with him, no strings attached.
And some people may incorrectly interpret these feelings of connectedness as deeper than they actually are, or they might "mistake the feeling of being physically close, and the feelings that come along with that, with an actual, real connection," she says.
Often, what's really at play when we talk about sex and emotion, is one person's ability to be vulnerable with another person, Thomas says.
, Hannah goes to surf school and hooks up with one of the instructors.