Overcoming the fear of rejection If you rarely approach women and hardly ever talk to girls, then each approach is going to feel like a big deal.
And this will make each rejection hurt that much more.
Now, don’t just answer these questions in your mind.
To really deal with your fears of talking to women, take the time to write these answers down.
(FYI a similar idea of how changing perspectives can lead you to become a more confident, charismatic person who has an easy time connecting with women was touched on in the episode of Pickup Podcast with Oliva Fox Cabane) When approaching women, focus on the positives After getting rejected a guy will often focus on the rejection in a negative way.